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Oh, breastfeeding.\u00a0 The topic that seems to have been quite the “rage” if you have become a mom in recent years. I really do think it is so fantastic that normalizing breastfeeding has become such a big thing after it seemed to take a little bit of a hiatus. However, I also think sometimes it can be a little too much in our face.\u00a0 One more thing for Moms to feel guilty about or pressured to do, because let’s get real for a minute here..breastfeeding is natural yes, but it is not easy. At least, that was not my journey.<\/p>\n

There are three things that as a Mom I am very OCD and particular about.\u00a0 Sleep training & schedules\/routines being two of them…solid nutrition is the other. SO, that being said, breastfeeding was something that I knew I wanted to do if I was able.<\/p>\n

I did not have supply issues.\u00a0 Rocklyn did not have latching issues. It was pretty smooth from the get-go in that regard.\u00a0 But I DID have weird anxiety issues.\u00a0 I dreaded every time I had to nurse and to be honest I really could not tell you why.\u00a0 I did not feel comfortable doing it in public as my milk tended to spray and make a mess everywhere, I would barely even feed in front of my husband at home.\u00a0 During almost every single feeding I would take my daughter into the nursery to feed in private and I put music on every time to calm my nerves.\u00a0 I knew that if she felt me being nervous, she would be nervous so I worked very hard to real that in.<\/p>\n

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When she was two weeks old, we introduced a bottle at night.\u00a0 This was my chance to pump a bottle and get to bed early so that my husband could stay up later with her and give her the last feeding. \u00a0 Once we got in this routine, I always got a head start on sleep which worked out GREAT in those early weeks.\u00a0 During that week in particular she did have a little confusion between nursing and bottles, but it passed pretty quickly and she was able to bounce back and forth as needed.<\/p>\n

However,\u00a0 when she was around 8 weeks old, we accidentally used a fast flow nipple on one of her bottles for a few days instead of the natural flow we had been using.\u00a0 That week she fought me HARD for the first time when nursing and wanted nothing to do with me.\u00a0 My assumption is that she got a little spoiled with the fast flow milk and did not like the slower pace of the milk coming from me.\u00a0 So, at this point, I talked to a lactation consultant who recommended doing no bottle for 3 days to get her back on track. However, after really thinking about it, I decided to use this as my out and switched to exclusively pumping. Meaning, she would still be getting 100% breast milk, but it would be all through bottles and no nursing.\u00a0 I won’t lie, this was actually a huge relief for me as I mentioned, I just did not like nursing.\u00a0 I was a little sad when I nursed her the last time, knowing we would make the switch, but most of me was really relieved.\u00a0 The first few weeks of pumping exclusively was great, it took a little juggling but I really felt so much better and less stressed\u00a0 and anxious.\u00a0 Then I went back to work.\u00a0 OOOF.<\/p>\n

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Once I went back to work, it took much longer for me to pump my milk since I was away from her all day, this is apparently normal.\u00a0 When at home, I would pump 15-20 minutes and get 8-12 oz at a time.\u00a0 Once I went back to work, it took me 45-60 minutes to pump the same amount. I rarely would take a lunch because of all the time I had to pump, and it was really stressful to find a place to go at work not to mention trying to fit it in between meetings.\u00a0 My boss and other co-workers were very supportive, but it still stressed me out.\u00a0 I also pumped on my drive to work and on the way home every day to free up time, which was a lifesaver.\u00a0 In the morning since I would still workout at 5am, I would get up at 3:30am to get my hour long pump in BEFORE the gym, otherwise I would be too uncomfortable. It was so much work and I felt like a slave to that machine. It truly owned me. I tried to be as positive as I could while pumping and use the time to read, journal, etc. But man, spending 5 hours a day attached to a milk machine, just drives you insane sometimes. I had to miss out on a lot of things because of my pump schedule, and it certainly made doing fun things on the weekend difficult too.<\/p>\n

I really wanted to have Rocklyn get breast milk for a full year, it was really important to me.\u00a0 Luckily, I did have good enough supply to create a little stash but around the 8 month mark, I just had had it.\u00a0 I wanted my life back.\u00a0 When I did the math, I had about 3 months of milk stored in our freezer for her, which meant that she would need to switch to regular milk earlier or get formula during her 11th month.\u00a0 I decided it was worth it and pulled the plug…literally.<\/p>\n

My husband would tell you that the week I stopped pumping was the week I went back to my “normal self” again. I was less stressed, less irritated by him (I held some resentment issues for having to be the one to do all this at times) more rested and just had so much more freedom. It was awesome.\u00a0 However, I did of course still have guilt for quitting early. I really was hard on myself for\u00a0 not trying to push another month.\u00a0 Especially because Rocklyn only ended up needing formula for 2 weeks before we switched to regular milk.\u00a0 Really Jill, you couldn’t have done TWO MORE weeks of pumping after doing it for 8 months?\u00a0 But to be honest, I really don’t think I could have!\u00a0 The day I decided I was done, I was really at my limit.<\/p>\n

There are very few things I am nervous about with bringing baby number #2 into our house but entering into this journey again is one of them.\u00a0 Maybe I can try to enjoy it a little more this time around and nurse longer, the fact that I work from home now will certainly make things a little easier, but it will still\u00a0 be a bit of a juggling act with a toddler running around. \u00a0 We will see how it goes, send me your good vibes \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

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Oh, breastfeeding.\u00a0 The topic that seems to have been quite the “rage” if you have become a mom in recent years. I really do think it is so fantastic that normalizing breastfeeding has become such a big thing after it seemed to take a little bit of a hiatus. However, I also think sometimes it can be a little too much in our face.\u00a0 One more thing for Moms to feel guilty about or pressured to do, because let’s get real for a minute here..breastfeeding is natural yes, but it is not easy. At least, that was not my journey. There are three things that as a Mom I am very OCD and particular about.\u00a0 Sleep training & schedules\/routines being two of them…solid nutrition is the other. SO, that being said, breastfeeding was something that I knew I wanted to do if I was able. I did not have supply issues.\u00a0 Rocklyn did not have latching issues. It was pretty smooth from the get-go in that regard.\u00a0 But I DID have weird anxiety issues.\u00a0 I dreaded every time I had to nurse and to be honest I really could not tell you why.\u00a0 I did not feel comfortable doing it in public as my milk tended to spray and make a mess everywhere, I would barely even feed in front of my husband at home.\u00a0 During almost every single feeding I would take my daughter into the nursery to feed in private and I put music on every time to calm my nerves.\u00a0 I knew that if she felt me being nervous, she would be nervous so I worked very hard to real that in. When she was two weeks old, we introduced a bottle at night.\u00a0 This was my chance to pump a bottle and get to bed early so that my husband could stay up later with her and give her the last feeding. \u00a0 Once we got in this routine, I always got a head start on sleep which worked out GREAT in those early weeks.\u00a0 During that week in particular she did have a little confusion between nursing and bottles, but it passed pretty quickly and she was able to bounce back and forth as needed. However,\u00a0 when she was around 8 weeks old, we accidentally used a fast flow nipple on one of her bottles for a few days instead of the natural flow we had been using.\u00a0 That week she fought me HARD for the first time when nursing and wanted nothing to do with me.\u00a0 My assumption is that she got a little spoiled with the fast flow milk and did not like the slower pace of the milk coming from me.\u00a0 So, at this point, I talked to a lactation consultant who recommended doing no bottle for 3 days to get her back on track. However, after really thinking about it, I decided to use this as my out and switched to exclusively pumping. Meaning, she would still be getting 100% breast milk, but it would be all through bottles and no nursing.\u00a0 I won’t lie, this was actually a huge relief for me as I mentioned, I just did not like nursing.\u00a0 I was a little sad when I nursed her the last time, knowing we would make the switch, but most of me was really relieved.\u00a0 The first few weeks of pumping exclusively was great, it took a little juggling but I really felt so much better and less stressed\u00a0 and anxious.\u00a0 Then I went back to work.\u00a0 OOOF. Once I went back to work, it took much longer for me to pump my milk since I was away from her all day, this is apparently normal.\u00a0 When at home, I would pump 15-20 minutes and get 8-12 oz at a time.\u00a0 Once I went back to work, it took me 45-60 minutes to pump the same amount. I rarely would take a lunch because of all the time I had to pump, and it was really stressful to find a place to go at work not to mention trying to fit it in between meetings.\u00a0 My boss and other co-workers were very supportive, but it still stressed me out.\u00a0 I also pumped on my drive to work and on the way home every day to free up time, which was a lifesaver.\u00a0 In the morning since I would still workout at 5am, I would get up at 3:30am to get my hour long pump in BEFORE the gym, otherwise I would be too uncomfortable. It was so much work and I felt like a slave to that machine. It truly owned me. I tried to be as positive as I could while pumping and use the time to read, journal, etc. But man, spending 5 hours a day attached to a milk machine, just drives you insane sometimes. I had to miss out on a lot of things because of my pump schedule, and it certainly made doing fun things on the weekend difficult too. I really wanted to have Rocklyn get breast milk for a full year, it was really important to me.\u00a0 Luckily, I did have good enough supply to create a little stash but around the 8 month mark, I just had had it.\u00a0 I wanted my life back.\u00a0 When I did the math, I had about 3 months of milk stored in our freezer for her, which meant that she would need to switch to regular milk earlier or get formula during her 11th month.\u00a0 I decided it was worth it and pulled the plug…literally. My husband would tell you that the week I stopped pumping was the week I went back to my “normal self” again. I was less stressed, less irritated by him (I held some resentment issues for having to be the one to do all this at times) more rested and just had so much more freedom. It was awesome.\u00a0 However, I did of course still have guilt for quitting early. I really was hard on myself for\u00a0 not trying to push another month.\u00a0 Especially because Rocklyn only ended up needing formula for 2 weeks before we switched to regular milk.\u00a0 Really Jill, you couldn’t have done TWO MORE weeks of pumping after doing it for 8 months?\u00a0 But to be honest, I really don’t think I could have!\u00a0 The day I decided I was done, I was really at my limit. There are very few things I am nervous about with bringing baby number #2 into our house but entering into this journey again is one of them.\u00a0 Maybe I can try to enjoy it a little more this time around and nurse longer, the fact that I work from home now will certainly make things a little easier, but it will still\u00a0 be a bit of a juggling act with a toddler running around. \u00a0 We will see how it goes, send me your good vibes \ud83d\ude09    <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2308","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2308"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2308\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2325,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2308\/revisions\/2325"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2308"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2308"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2308"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}