didn’t<\/strong> workout\u00a0 during the time I wanted or in the way I wanted…ended up showing up later and even better than I could have imagined.\u00a0 Put it out there.\u00a0 Stop the doubt.\u00a0 Stop the negative self talk and fishing for encouragement from others.\u00a0 All you need is YOU.<\/p>\nIf you don’t design your life, somebody else will design it for you.<\/p>\n
Stay blessed in the mess \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
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What kind of life do you create for yourself?\u00a0 What kind of things do you “put out in the world”.\u00a0 What you put out…comes right back. Yet, we so often get caught putting words and thoughts out there that we do not in fact want.\u00a0 I cannot tell you how many times I hear things like this: “What if I never find somebody?” “What if I don’t reach my goal?” “I can’t lose the weight, it’s too hard.” “I will never look good in jeans like that.” “There is no hope.” “I won’t be able to finish this workout.” “I will never make enough money to stay ahead.” There is one thing all of these statements have in common.\u00a0 They are a bunch of hooey. If you find yourself saying things like this you need to: 1. Get a new attitude and start believing in yourself 2. Stop looking to other people to give you compliments or encourage you.\u00a0 It may work at first, but you will exhaust people. You need to lift YOURSELF up.\u00a0 If you don’t believe in you, nobody else will. 3. Fake it til you make it.\u00a0 Put what you want out there.\u00a0 Tell yourself you are strong.\u00a0 Tell yourself you are capable and WORTHY. Tell yourself you can DO IT.\u00a0 Tell yourself you are enough.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If you get into the habit of saying these things, eventually you will think them and eventually you will believe them.\u00a0 And all will fall into place. Every single milestone I have had in my life started as a lofty dream or wish on paper, that is it.\u00a0 I can give you example upon example of things I have “put out in the universe” and have appeared on my doorstep.\u00a0 There is no logical sense behind many of these things, they just happened.\u00a0 The things that didn’t workout\u00a0 during the time I wanted or in the way I wanted…ended up showing up later and even better than I could have imagined.\u00a0 Put it out there.\u00a0 Stop the doubt.\u00a0 Stop the negative self talk and fishing for encouragement from others.\u00a0 All you need is YOU. If you don’t design your life, somebody else will design it for you. Stay blessed in the mess \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1216","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1216","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1216"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1216\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1219,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1216\/revisions\/1219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1216"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1216"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.blessedinthemess.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1216"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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